I need to rant. I just need to get everything out…maybe that will make me feel better. Probably not, but it’s worth a shot. WARNING: If you don’t feel like listening to a teenage girl complain about her problems then I wouldn’t suggest reading any further. 

Dear, _____________

I would like to start off with the fact that today you have extremely selfish, rude, ignorant, and incredibly difficult. I’m glad you decided that starting off our conversation with an insult towards me was a great idea! Well here’s what I have to say: No it fucking wasn’t. I don’t understand why you can’t own up and apologize when I tell you that something you said hurt my feelings. No that does not mean I over reacted, because I can bet you $100 bucks on that one that I didn’t; I kept it allll in. And no, that does not mean that I am wrong. Everyone is entitled to their own feelings…and if you can’t accept mine then obviously there is going to be a problem. And when you tell me you had a bad day, and I try to call you to help you, DON’T FUCKING IGNORE MY CALL AND TELL ME NOT TO CALL YOU. YOU ASKED FOR HELP SO THAT IS WHAT I OFFERED. (Sorry about that). I wish you would stop being so selfish about things. I get you had a shitty day, I get that you think that what you said wasn’t wrong, I get all that. But what I don’t get is why you can never just sit there and honestly say you’re sorry and mean it. If you care about me as much as you say you do, then apologizing when someone says you hurt their feelings shouldn’t be a problem. Don’t tell me that how I feel is wrong, because it never is. Feelings can’t be wrong. Period, end of story. I just wish that you would think about things from a different perspective. Try to imagine how the other person is feeling and what made them feel that way. People don’t just get upset for no reason. I’m not trying to say you’re not a nice person, or that you don’t care; all I’m trying to say is I wish you understood. I wish you understood how it feels to be me. 

Grow up, own up, and don’t be such a dick.